Jim says:
September 10, 2010 at 10:02 am
Dear Draculino,
I am a Judo athlete from France for 23 years now (I started at the age of 8). So it was easy for me to enter the “cousin” BJJ two years ago.
Please allow me to agree but at the same time to disagree with all the respect I have for you and for all the BJJ masters in general.
BJJ is indeed the BEST martial art for women self-defence as usually the woman ends up with her leg around the waist of the attacker. (although a woman that started Judo at an early age could be no doubt an unassailable target as long as newaza is part of her training- for women that start training as adults I must admit that BJJ is no doubt better)
However…it is not only striking besides grappling.
From my experience no Martial-Art is enough for women self-defence (even for men).
Any school that offers self-defence and not just a martial-art should complement its lessons offered with at least an hour/month of showing the dirty technics…hit the groin, bite or even pull the hair! These technics are not belonging to any Martial-Art…are instictive movements that can come up during scare-times, and a woman should know at least how these instictive moves could become more effective.
We have this discussion a lot in my dojo (about self-defence and street fighting) also with our women co-athletes. Our conclusion here is that no martial art is 100% covering the self-defence issue. Only the combination of a very effective Martial-Art such as Judo or BJJ with the instictive moves can offer this. Out there some victims (men or women) did not had the time to ippon the attacker through a “Uki Goshi” on the concrete or perform a “Kimura” as a second attacker stomped them on the head…but they may had some seconds to run (or mili-seconds to duck) if they just go for putting a finger in the attacker’s eye.
I believe that this 1 hour per month could give that 5% that is missing from Judo and BJJ in self-defence.
Draculino:
Dear Jim,
Thanks for writing. There are good points on your analysis. I really think that dirty techniques could be effective in a fight and that sometimes its better to just evade your potential opponent. But the truth is, dirty techniques are not easy to apply and really does not work in all situations. I can tell you plenty of women I know who have tried to use these techniques unsuccessfully. One of my students who also works with me is a prime example. Colby’s mother was kidnapped when he was two by a man posing to be a police officer. She tried grabbing his genitals and squeezing as hard as she could and she said he just reached in his truck, grabbed his police flashlight and knocked her unconscious.
Thank God, she was able to escape later while they were driving when she woke up with her head in his lap with her hands tied. After saying a prayer asking God to let something stop them before he did what he had planned for her…she realized she could make the truck wreck and after saying “amen” she noticed either coincidentally or by divine intervention…the ropes on her hand had become loose. She reached up and yanked on the steering wheel causing him to let go over her to regain control of the vehicle and allow her to escape out of the moving vehicle. She had to go out of the window of a moving truck because he had removed the door handle on the inside.
Some times, getting in close combat with a man and trying striking or “Dirty Techniques” can get you in trouble. There is also no way to effectively train them in a live situation and know what your capable of and how your opponent will react so that you can train to counter appropriately. In Jiu-Jitsu you can train at 100% and you will know EXACTLY what your capable and have a great idea how your opponent will react. That is why solid training in BJJ (or even judo) and a notion of some dirty techniques is, as you say, the ideal way to train. I don’t like, however, some styles claiming that you don’t need training and that a couple of tricks are enough to make the person safe, that is just not true.
Thanks Jim for your insight and thank you Colby for letting me share that story.
Draculino